Taming the tongue
We’re studying James 3 in our small group this week, so I spent some time looking up verses on the topic of “taming the tongue”. It’s really great to look up verses throughout the Bible on subjects so you get various references to the same topic. I don’t do this often enough. Here are the ones I pulled out for this Chapter.
- “Those who consider themselves religious and yet do not keep a tight rein on their tongues deceive themselves, and their religion is worthless.” (James 1:26)
- If anyone does not stumble in word, he is a perfect man, able also to bridle the whole body. 3 Indeed, we put bits in horses’ mouths that they may obey us, and we turn their whole body. 4 Look also at ships: although they are so large and are driven by fierce winds, they are turned by a very small rudder wherever the pilot desires. 5 Even so the tongue is a little member and boasts great things.
See how great a forest a little fire kindles! 6 And the tongue is a fire, a world of iniquity. The tongue is so set among our members that it defiles the whole body, and sets on fire the course of nature; and it is set on fire by hell. 7 For every kind of beast and bird, of reptile and creature of the sea, is tamed and has been tamed by mankind. 8 But no man can tame the tongue. It is an unruly evil, full of deadly poison. 9 With it we bless our God and Father, and with it we curse men, who have been made in the similitude of God. 10 Out of the same mouth proceed blessing and cursing. My brethren, these things ought not to be so. 11 Does a spring send forth fresh water and bitter from the same opening? 12 Can a fig tree, my brethren, bear olives, or a grapevine bear figs? Thus no spring yields both salt water and fresh.
- “Death and life are in the power of the tongue” (Prov 18:21)
- ““Make a tree good and its fruit will be good, or make a tree bad and its fruit will be bad, for a tree is recognized by its fruit. 34 You brood of vipers, how can you who are evil say anything good? For the mouth speaks what the heart is full of.35 A good man brings good things out of the good stored up in him, and an evil man brings evil things out of the evil stored up in him.36 But I tell you that everyone will have to give account on the day of judgment for every empty word they have spoken.37 For by your words you will be acquitted, and by your words you will be condemned.” (Matthew 12:33)
- “Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen.” (Eph 4:29)
- A lot of the Psalms are also written on this topic, so we know this was something David prayed for often- “Set a guard over my mouth, O Lord; keep watch over the door of my lips.” (Ps 141:3)
- “Help, Lord, for the godly man ceases!For the faithful disappear from among the sons of men.2 They speak idly everyone with his neighbor; With flattering lips anda double heart they speak.3 May the Lord cut off all flattering lips,And the tongue that speaks proud things,4 Who have said,“With our tongue we will prevail;Our lips are our own;Who is lord over us?” (Ps 12)









